{"id":5632,"date":"2022-08-22T11:38:29","date_gmt":"2022-08-22T11:38:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/unegruaja.org.al\/?p=5632"},"modified":"2022-12-29T21:13:53","modified_gmt":"2022-12-29T21:13:53","slug":"te-sfidojme-sjelljet-e-dhunshme-dhe-ekstremiste-7","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/unegruaja.org.al\/te-sfidojme-sjelljet-e-dhunshme-dhe-ekstremiste-7\/","title":{"rendered":"Klaudia Halahula"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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Sjelljet e dhunshme dhe ekstremiste padyshim q\u00eb jan\u00eb nj\u00eb nga problematikat m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, me t\u00eb cilat shoq\u00ebria po p\u00ebrballet. Sigurisht q\u00eb sfidimi i k\u00ebtyre sjelljeve, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00ebnisje e mir\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb parandaluar t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihen n\u00eb sjelljet ekstreme, por duke siguruar k\u00ebshtu nj\u00eb mjedis m\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt dhe t\u00eb paqt\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb individ\u00ebt. N\u00eb vijim t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj eseje do t\u00eb paraqes faktor\u00ebt, shkaqet dhe pasojat e ekstremizmit t\u00eb dhunsh\u00ebm, por do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb thoja q\u00eb edhe t\u00eb shkruarit k\u00ebt\u00eb ese padyshim \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi e vyer, n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet t\u00eb cil\u00ebs jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb mund t\u00eb japim pik\u00ebpamjet dhe argumentat tona p\u00ebr tematik\u00ebn, por edhe t\u00eb ndihmojm\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i sfiduar sjelljet e dhunshme dhe ekstremiste. Sigurisht q\u00eb faktor\u00ebt dhe shkaqet q\u00eb \u00e7ojn\u00eb drejt sjelljeve ekstreme, jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb shumt\u00eb, megjithat\u00eb teksa po mendoja dhe analizoja shum\u00eb prej tyre, vendosa t\u00eb fokusohesha dhe argumentoja rreth disa prej tyre, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt n\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimin tim lidhen ngusht\u00eb me k\u00ebto sjellje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00ebpari, do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb p\u00ebrmendja bullizmin. T\u00eb qenurit i bullizuar, b\u00ebn q\u00eb individi t\u00eb ndihet i nervozuar, ishqet\u00ebsuar dhe i p\u00ebrbuzur nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. K\u00ebto ndjenja mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb q\u00eb ai q\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm t\u00eb ndihet i p\u00ebrjashtuar dhe i izoluar nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, por edhe q\u00eb ta konsideroj\u00eb kryerjen e sjelljeve t\u00eb dhunshme dhe ekstreme si t\u00eb vetmen m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje. S\u00eb dyti, do t\u00eb p\u00ebmendja rolin negativ q\u00eb luan angazhimi i familjar\u00ebve t\u00eb individit n\u00eb sjellje ekstreme. Duke par\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e familjes s\u00eb tij sillen, duke besuar dhe pranuar pik\u00ebpamje t\u00eb gabuara t\u00ebfamiljar\u00ebve p\u00ebr k\u00ebto sjellje, mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb edhe individi t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihet n\u00eb po t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat sjellje si ata. P\u00ebrpos familjes, mendoj se edhe bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebt mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb nj\u00eb ndikim n\u00eb p\u00ebrfshirjen e individit n\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb dhunshme dhe ekstreme. Pra, ndikimi apo presioni i bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebve, d\u00ebshira e individit p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb i pranuar dhe i kuptuar nga ata, si edhe t\u00eb paturit nj\u00eb sens identiteti t\u00eb ngjash\u00ebm me at\u00eb t\u00eb an\u00ebtar\u00ebve t\u00eb grupit, mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb q\u00eb individi t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihet dhe t\u00eb kryej\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb dhunshme dhe ekstreme. Mendoj se edhe varf\u00ebria ka nj\u00eb ndikim n\u00eb p\u00ebrfshirjen e individit n\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb dhunshm edhe ekstreme. P\u00ebr t\u00eb patur kushte m\u00eb t\u00eb mira ekonomike, mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb individi t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihet n\u00eb k\u00ebto sjellje. P\u00ebrpos varf\u00ebris\u00eb edhe mungesa e shkollimit, mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb q\u00eb individi t\u00eb influencohet nga mendime, besime dhe sjellje t\u00eb gabuara dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme. Pasojat e ekstremizmit t\u00eb dhunsh\u00ebm jan\u00eb t\u00eb rr\u00ebnda jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr individin q\u00eb i kryen k\u00ebto sjellje, por edhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb. Duke u p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb dhunshme dhe ekstreme, individi d\u00ebmton t\u00eb tashmen dhe t\u00eb ardhmen e tij. Ai nuk angazhohet p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb i dobish\u00ebm p\u00ebr veten e tij, por gjithashtu nuk angazhohet p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb nj\u00eb qytetar i denj\u00eb p\u00ebr vendin e tij. Pasojat e ekstremizmit t\u00eb dhunsh\u00ebm kan\u00eb d\u00ebme t\u00eb m\u00ebdha dhe shpesh t\u00eb parikuperueshme. Si rrjedhoj\u00eb e k\u00ebtyre sjelljeve, mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrballemi me nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuar dhe t\u00eb pasigurt p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen, mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrballemi me nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri ku e drejta dhe mund\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar nj\u00eb jet\u00eb sa m\u00eb cil\u00ebsore, t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme dhe t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb, mund t\u00eb venitet p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb sjelljeve t\u00eb dhunshme dhe ekstreme. Sigurisht q\u00eb ka m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb ndryshme se si sjelljet ekstremiste mund t\u00eb sfidohen p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb mundur parandalimin e p\u00ebrfshirjes s\u00eb t\u00eb rinjve n\u00eb k\u00ebto sjellje. N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim kur nisa t\u00eb shkruaj k\u00ebt\u00eb ese, po p\u00ebrpiqesha t\u00eb listoja dhe arsyetoja lidhur me k\u00ebto m\u00ebnyra. Vendosa t\u2019i drejtoj vetes nj\u00eb pyetje: \u201cSi nj\u00eb e re, cilat mendon ti se jan\u00eb m\u00ebnyrat m\u00eb efikase p\u00ebr t\u00eb parandaluar p\u00ebrfshirjen e t\u00eb rinjve n\u00eb sjelljet ekstreme?\u201d Sigurisht q\u00eb mendoj se edukimi \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebsi me t\u00eb cilin ne t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsojm\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb, por mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi edhe qytetar\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb denj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb dobish\u00ebm p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb. N\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet edukimit, t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb mund t\u00eb informohen rreth pasojave negative t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre sjelljeve. Mund t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb kujdessh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb shmangin sjelljet ekstreme. Nj\u00eb m\u00ebyr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr mendoj se \u00ebsht\u00eb angazhimi dhe kontributi i t\u00eb rinjve p\u00ebr t\u00eb parandaluar sjelljet ekstreme. Sigurisht q\u00eb angazhimi dhe kontributi i tyre do t\u00eb duhej t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetej dhe inkurajohej edhe nga individ\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt po ashtu duan dhe p\u00ebrpiqen t\u2019i shmangin k\u00ebto sjellje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si p\u00ebrfundim, do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb thoja q\u00eb sfidimi i sjelljeve t\u00eb dhunshm edhe ekstreme do t\u00eb kishte nj\u00eb impakt pozitiv si p\u00ebr t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb, por edhe p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsi. N\u00ebse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne p\u00ebrpiqemi s\u00eb bashku, p\u00ebr t\u2019i parandaluar sjelljet e dhunshme dhe ekstreme, do t\u00eb ishim n\u00eb gjendje jo vet\u00ebm t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsonim cil\u00ebsin\u00eb e jet\u00ebs son\u00eb, por edhe t\u00eb brezave t\u00eb ardhsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sjelljet e dhunshme dhe ekstremiste padyshim q\u00eb jan\u00eb nj\u00eb nga problematikat m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, me t\u00eb cilat shoq\u00ebria po p\u00ebrballet. Sigurisht q\u00eb sfidimi i k\u00ebtyre sjelljeve, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00ebnisje e mir\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb parandaluar t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihen n\u00eb sjelljet ekstreme, por duke siguruar k\u00ebshtu nj\u00eb mjedis m\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt dhe t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":5612,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""}}},"categories":[62,14],"tags":[],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/unegruaja.org.al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5632"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/unegruaja.org.al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/unegruaja.org.al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unegruaja.org.al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unegruaja.org.al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5632"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/unegruaja.org.al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5632\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5666,"href":"https:\/\/unegruaja.org.al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5632\/revisions\/5666"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unegruaja.org.al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5612"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/unegruaja.org.al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5632"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unegruaja.org.al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5632"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/unegruaja.org.al\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5632"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}